This Will Never Be Forgotten Nor Forgiven

 No, You Are Not Forgiven

No, "family and friends," you have not been forgiven for what you have done. In fact, you will NEVER be forgiven, and we can't ever been friends nor family again.

You see, you still have no idea what you have done here today. None. You are either too stupid or too filled with hatred to see it.

You have given the United States of America away to the wealthy class that has been trying to take it back from the middle class literally since the days of FDR. You have disgraced the memory of your middle class parents and immigrant grandparents. That's what you have done. As if that in itself is not enough, consider your moral decay.

You watched another election, but THIS time it was "fair" for you because your candidate won. For FOUR SOLID YEARS we had to listen to you whine that the 2020 election was "stollen," and now all of a sudden those very same election procedures were absolutely secure? You are not very smart.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You voted for a man legitimately convicted of 34 felonies for having sex with a porn star and covering it up so that you, the voters, would not find out about it. Little did the orange moron know that IT WOULDN'T HAVE MATTERED TO YOU ANYWAY. You heard this and said, "he was railroaded and he is my guy." This with literally ZERO evidence to back up the claim. You did this because you were paying a dollar more per pound for butter.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You voted for a man righteously convicted of sexual assault, the same man who said on tape that he grabs women "by the pussy." The same man who's best friend, Jeffrey Epstein, spent his entire life grooming young girls under 18 to have sex with him and his rich friends. The same man who called TRUMP (oh, the irony) "a man with no moral guardrails." The same man who "killed himself" in his jail cell while UNDER SUICIDE WATCH. Riiiight.

You voted for a man who was credibly accused of gang-raping a 13-year-old girl along with Epstein, a case the details of which are absolutely disgusting, a case that was dropped by this young girl because her life was threatened. A man who has over 30 other charges of sexual  assault made against him. A man who his wife testified raped her violently and tore her hair out by the roots, the same women who later died "when she accidentally fell down the steps" (right) in her own home, a women who was buried in the rough on your golf course because you learned that a grave site is exempt from taxes. And you didn't even cut the grass on her grave. You voted for him. You did this because coffee was more expensive.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You voted for a man who asked for the files on all our undercover people overseas, took them home after he was president, kept them, and then watched as "an unusual number" of these people were killed in the line of duty. When he was indicted for stealing said classified documents, you said, "no, they are out to get him he is my guy." This with literally ZERO evidence to back it up. You did this because hamburger cost you .50 per pound more.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You voted for a man who mocked the disabled, simulated oral sex with a microphone, called the press "the enemy of the people," stood by and watched a comedian call Puerto Rico "an island of garbage," called his opponent a fascist, communist and socialist. He did those things because he knew YOU would be dumb enough to accept those things as "okay" and "true." Which you did happily. You did this because potato chips were 75 cents per bag more.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You voted for a man and a party who have continually said they want to eliminate social security and take down Obamacare, cutting your retirement income and rendering literally millions of people uninsurable. This same man has NEVER produced a single actual idea nor policy on healthcare, ever. Not one. All this is stated in his Project 2025, which he told you is "not part of his policy." Yet he has produced no other policy, and today, just two days after the election, one of his people has already laughed at you and said "Project 2025 was real all along." You have screwed yourselves and you have screwed us all. This because milk costs you .50 more per half gallon.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You voted for a man who's ham-handed attempts to reverse the results of the 2020 election in Georgia led to a RICO indictment of him and his cronies, many of whom will invited back in his new cabinet come January. By very definition, these are people who are too corrupt to be trusted with the reigns of power, yet you in your sheer ignorance have handed it right to them and expected them to suddenly behave like civilized, law-abiding people. You did this because salami was $1 per pound more.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You have voted for a man who has lied literally hundreds of thousands of times over the past few years, lies that can virtually ALL be easily proven by facts (those things you don't recognize). Again and again and again he has lied to you. But instead of understanding that these things were provable lies, you have railed against the people reporting on his words, the people who know him best who have warned you about him, and the people who have had the guts to speak out against his lies. "They are all lying, but he speaks the truth," you have said.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You voted for this man because you have ignored all relevant economic data that shows the U.S. economy as the strongest in the world at this very moment, that inflation is waning, that the stock market is cruising, that job growth is way up and unemployment is way down, that corporate profits are gigantic. No, you said, these things are not true because Donald Trump says otherwise. You did these things because cheese is .75 more per pound.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You voted for this man even though he constantly spews hatred for people who do not look like him, for transgender people who will now live in fear, for immigrants LIKE YOUR PARENTS who are only here looking for a chance to live their lives in peace and prosperity, but who will now be fearful, expecting Big Brother to be hiding around every corner ready to get them. If all these people are rounded up and shipped out of here as Trump would like, will YOUR children be taking the thankless manual labor jobs these people do quietly every day? No, they will not. You did this because rice cost .99 per bag more.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You complained ENDLESSLLY about "the immigration problem" even though Trump, with two years in office and control of the Senate, never bothered to pass a single piece of legislation on the issue. And when the Republicans and Democrats in the Senate finally did get together and draft a Republican-written, bi-partisan piece of legislation that would absolutely help the situation, your orange god told them to scuttle it because it would hurt his chances of re-election. Yet you still voted for this horrible, corrupt human being.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You voted for this guy even though for literally years you have listened to him say bigoted, hateful, ugly things as he ginned up fear in this country. He told you the country is a crime-riddled sh!thole even though crime is down everywhere. You bought into this fear and hate because you are ignorant and can not separate fact from fiction and reality from fantasy. You said "he talks in a way that I understand" in defense of such hateful rhetoric, yet he speak on a third-grade level. If you really CAN understand what he is saying, why are you not appalled by it? You did this because a can of beans costs .10 more.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You see, you people still think this election was simply about Republican vs Democrat or Liberal vs Conservative. No, it was not. It was about Right vs Wrong and Good vs Evil. Now that you have stupidly put your support behind Wrong and Evil, how can you think we would EVER be able to look at you the same way again? You have become like the sheeple of the Weimer Republic in Germany, who looked to their own selfish needs while their government was overrun by horrible, hateful, ignorant people. This is the door YOU have opened here in my beloved country.

This will never be forgiven nor forgotten.

You are no longer my friends nor my family. If I never see or hear from any of you again, that's fine by me. I'll be too busy here fighting to get back the Democracy YOU have taken away from me and my real family.

Lesson #2: Trump WILL End the War in Ukraine

Funny to hear that coming from me, huh? But he will do it, and it will happen rather quickly. He's told you how many times, if you have been listening. 

First, he will bow to his master, Putin, and will immediately cut off all aid to Ukraine, deeming it "too expense and a waste." Putin will then take whatever parts of Ukraine he wants, enslave the Ukrainian people, execute their leadership, commit atrocities, etc. 

Congrats! "Peace" in Europe, Trump will say.

Wait: there's more. 

Secondly, this action will begin to destabilize the North American Treaty Organization. Trump will then move to render it powerless by bitching about how much it costs us, how the other nations aren't paying their share, etc. This from a loser who NEVER pays his contractors in full (ask them). Before long, NATO nations will be in disarray as far as supporting each other in times of aggression. 

Despots, oligarchs, and fascist all over the world will celebrate this news. Putin especially. 

Putin will then move on another European nation he covets. No one will come to their aid. They will be overrun. 

Trump will stay out of it, claiming neutrality and saying it's "not our problem."

Before too long, Putin's power base will be overwhelming, and without the power of the United States and NATO to stop them, the axis of Russia, China and North Korea will be able to act as they wish without fear of repraisal. 

That's what Trump wants, and that's what WILL happen if we elect him. 

For those of you who intend to vote for him because of your wallets, ya might wanna pay attention to all this for five minutes because it WILL destroy our economy. 

Which was Putin's goal all along.

No, He Did Not Call You "Garbage"

I'm gonna explain this one last time here, in case Danielle decides to post on daddy's account next. I've already blocked mommy and her, as I'm sick and tired of the ignorance and hatred coming from these people. 

It's amazing that they can't see what they've become because of this guy. 

I've heard Joe Biden speak many times. I've heard Donald J. Trump speak many times. Both of their messages have been crystal clear over these past years. There has been no ambiguity. 

No, people, Biden did NOT call all Trump supporters "garbage." Biden has a stutter. He is very old (as these very same people were very anxious to point out weeks ago). He stumbles upon his sentences from time to time as everyone knows. 

Note:, Biden is NOT running for president, in case you missed it. 

What he was obviously (if you are not a cult member) saying was that one supporter and his message of hatred was "garbage." Which I agree with, as should you. 

Again, I used deductive reasoning to make this assessment. Biden stutters. He has NEVER talked in such terms. Ever. He has always been 100% inclusive in his language. So, to think he would suddenly change colors in this moment is just dumb. It's not who he has been; it's not who he is. But of course, these desperate, twisted people are going to try and use this gaff as some kind of "October surprise."

Sorry, folks, but the intelligent people are on to your bullshit. Ain't gonna work this time. 

Trump, on the other hand, calls us liberals nasty names at virtually every single speech. He has called Harris a socialist, a communist, and a fascist on a nightly basis. Comically, those are three very different things, but he is too g-d dumb to know it. It's who he is; it's who he has always been.

So when I tell people to smarten up on this issue, that's why. If that bothers you, well, SMARTEN UP.

In Defense of Pete Rose (Finally)

I am a huge baseball fan, and always have been. I played the game from 1965-1968, again from 1973-1976, and then, after over a decade playing softball from 1976-1992, returned once again and played from 1993-2017. A lot of my life was spent between those white lines, and they are moments I would never give back. I loved every second.

So today, I want to write about the complicated legacy of Peter Edward Rose.

Let’s face it: like a lot of professional baseball players (Curt Schilling, Barry Bonds, Lenny Dykstra and Wade Boggs come immediately to mind), Rose was not a rocket scientist, nor was he a candidate for the Nobel Prize.

But his job description was not “Rocket Scientist” nor was it “Nobel Prize Winner.” Nope.

Pete’s job was getting hits, catching and throwing, and winning baseball games. Anyone who says he did NOT do those things at a Hall of Fame level has never held a baseball in anger. The 1980 Phillies simply do not win a Championship without Rose. This is inarguable.

But Pete was his own worst enemy.

Every day, he walked past a sign in every MLB clubhouse than warned against the dangers of gambling and promised every player that, should he get involved with gambling, that he WOULD be banned from the game for life.

I suppose Pete thought he was above such things. He was arrogant in that way, and really, that same kind of arrogance may have been what made him such a great player given his rather pedestrian skill set.

I am certain he gambled on baseball. I am certain he gambled on his own team. Yet I am 100% certain he bet on his team to win.

For years, I felt no pity for him. He made his own bed. Thanks to his friends Joe Morgan and Mike Schmidt, Rose finally did get a meeting with the Commissioner of Baseball, Peter Seitz. In that meeting, he was told that, in order to get back in baseball’s good graces, he would need to cease any association with gambling and gamblers. That was made very clear to him,

Pete went directly from that meeting with Seitz to Las Vegas to sign autographs and kibitz with his gambling buddies. That’s self-destructive behavior if I’ve ever seen it.

But things are different in baseball today. After a century of decrying the evils of gambling, now I have to sit through ad after ad PROMOTING gambling. The announcers at each game even have the audacity to give the odds of “Alec Bohm driving in a run tonight” or “Aaron Nola getting seven strikeouts or more tonight.”

I find it infuriating, and I find it hypocritical.

How can baseball or anyone else now keep Rose out of the Hall of Fame if they are literally IN BED with gambling on a nightly basis? How long will it be before some addle-brained superstar gets in knee-deep with the wrong people and gets himself banished from the game? You already came dangerously close with the Ohtani mess.

In closing, I have the following advice for baseball: 1) get all this gambling bullshit off the air every night and away from the game; or 2) put the goddamned guy in the Hall of Fame where he belongs. Shoeless Joe, too, for that matter.

It’s just common sense.

Calling A Violation

My dear cousins and me had a text chain going. It was all about our family and about a Cousins Dinner that is held in Jersey several times per year. This message is for them. It is NOT political.

We all grew up the children of five wonderful women who raised us all pretty much collectively. I can only speak for my mom when I say that I never heard politics discussed in the household. The only things I can remember are discussions of JFK and RFK when they were assassinated. My mother loved them both, and I believe all of our parents were lifelong Democrats. But that's not the point.

When one of my cousins posted a political cartoon on that text chain, I was very, very upset, and I openly apologize here to them all for my reaction, which was heated. But I need to explain WHY it was heated, and what it meant.

We certainly have different views of the current political landscape, and you are all well aware of mine. But I never, ever shared those views in the text chain, because to me, that is scared. It's like a digital version of our family homes when were growing up — all about family, not politics. Most of the conversations my mom had back in the day in her kitchen were about Aunt Rosie, Aunt Millie, Auto Mary and Aunt Lulu and their kids. That was their focus, and their "life's work," as it were.

Times are different now. We are scattered around the country and cannot spend each weekend visiting each other like in the old days. There are responsibilities to attend to and lives to live. But we CAN connect digitally, share old stories, and spend time together via text chains like this, and via other digital means.

And that's why that text upset me so much. To me, it violated a sacred trust and destroyed a "safe haven" for me. I have ZERO problem with any of you posting your political views on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, wherever. There I am able to mute or block them should I not agree with them. And I do disagree MIGHTILY with some of you.

But here? In our "digital family home?" That just wasn't right. And honestly, I think you all agree with me on that point, though I know some of you most certainly do NOT agree with me politically. Which is fine.

The basic message here is that we should all stay in our lane when it comes to family conversations. If you wanna argue on Facebook or one-on-one, bring it. I am happy to handle myself in either forum, if need be. I have receipts.

Here in the safe space, though, let's talk about who's mother made the best meatballs, please.

Love you all. 

Abortion Clarity

I wanted to expand on my thoughts on abortion for clarity.

First of all, NO ONE is "in favor" of abortion. Well, okay, maybe the famous Hannibal Lecter might be. But no actual human beings. The minute someone uses that turn of a phrase in a an argument, they have lost the argument.

Back in 1977, me and my ex-wife were faced with this very decision. We were both very young (she 18, me 20), and we had to figure out what we were going to when she found out she was pregnant.

We went to Planned Parenthood for a consultant.

They did NOT try to point us in either direction. Instead, they talked through our options in a realistic fashion so we would know where we stood. It was a long time ago, but I remember them being very fair, open, and kind about everything. I was very impressed.

Cindi and me went home and quickly made the decision to keep our baby, and months later, our dear Nicole was born. Sadly, we only had her for 24 years, as she passed away due to complications of sepsis in 2002. Neither of us has ever recovered from this, because it's simply not something from which you ever "recover." Here we are some 22 years later and I still wake up sometimes crying, and I would imagine she does, too. That's how it is. But I digress.

I am anti-abortion. But I am anti-abortion for ME, a personal policy that should not ever affect anyone else, even a person with whom I might conceive a child (which ain't gonna happen at this advanced age, especially given my 1983 vasectomy!).

This makes me "Pro-Choice," not "Pro-Abortion."

And let me say that I fully understand and appreciate those who are 100% pro-life in all circumstances. If you believe life is precious, and that a fetus is a child, I get where you're coming from. However, that belief must therefore extend to children conceived by rape and incest, too. And it also must extend to the death penalty. A life's a life, right? If you favor any exceptions, that makes you a hypocrite. Sorry.

However, it must be noted that your belief that a fetus is a child comes from religious dogma, not from science nor medicine. There is no way to make that point using either of those things. Yes, there are some physicians who believe that way, but their beliefs ALSO come from religious dogma rather than science or medicine.

Don't get me wrong: if a physician feels that way, they should never, ever be forced to perform an abortion procedure. They should have ever right in the world to step away and hand the case over to another physician.

The problems arise when Physician A starts to try and tell Physician B that THEY cannot perform the procedure. That's where we go off the rails, and that is the difference between a pro-choice person and an anti-abortion person. The latter thinks THEIR beliefs, again based upon religious dogma, extend to folks besides themselves. 

They don't. Ever. This is why the Republicans being hell-bent on "sending the decision back to the votes" is asinine and ingenuous. Face facts: they still want to ben abortion. They just want the states to it for them, not the Federal government. It's a classic Republican dodge.

No one but a woman and her doctor should be allowed to make that decision, period. If Cindi and me had disagreed on that very difficult decision, HER voice should have been the one that held sway, not mine.

These Republican muckity-mucks have already set us back 50 years in social progress and women's rights. Give them another term in office and they are likely to try and take us back another 50 years to a time when Jim Crow laws ruled the land and women and black people were viewed as second class citizens by many.

Don't let them do it.

This election is without a doubt the most important in my long lifetime. I am hoping that the women and young people of this nation will choose a new future in which a woman, a mother, leads us. Where the politics of hatred and derision are no more. Where hope and positivity reign, and ignorance and negativity are rejected.

I am hoping for Kamala Harris, President of the United States.

The (Flag) Burning Question

I raised this topic several years ago on Facebook, and it created quite a bruhaha. Though it is incendiary — figuratively and quite literally — recent events tell me its time to revisit the subject.

Freedom, protest, and the burning of the American flag.

What is the REAL meaning of the freedom we have here in America? The freedom so many have died to protect. The freedom our forefathers built from scratch by putting forth the then novel and un-heard-of concept that all men are created equal.

It's clear to me, and very sad, that far too many people simply do not really understand American freedom. It has become lost in a rising tide of nationalistic fervor, a fervor that has exactly nothing to do with real patriotism. It is a sham and a show, a contest where you "prove" you are more patriotic than me by singing the national anthem louder, doing the pledge of allegiance repeatedly, or hugging the flag like an idiot. None of those things make you a patriot. Standing up for the rights of ALL Americans, whether you agree with them or not, THAT'S patriotism.

I said this back in the day, and I say it again here: the American flag BEGS you to burn it. The very fact that you are allowed to burn it without legal consequence is the very strength of that flag. Burn it, tear it, pour acid on it, whatever, the promise of freedom that it holds cannot be diminished. And the flag, or more accurately, the IDEAL of the flag, survives.

A flag burning, kneeling at a football game, or any other kind of peaceful protest is the most American of things. It is NOT a protest AGAINST America (or perhaps more accurately, the CONCEPT of America), and it does NOT dishonor the men and women who died defending that flag. That right to peacefully protest is exactly WHAT they were defending. Such actions are (generally speaking) a protest against the current government and (whatever) actions they have taken with which you disagree. As an example, the hippie protests against the Vietnam war were not a protest against the troops out there doing their duty. They were against the government that sent them there to die for no good reason. This does not diminish their service or sacrifice in any way.

When protests such as these are NOT allowed, when you are jailed for expressing such opinions, well, that's the moment Democracy has died. Welcome to Russia.

Now let me be clear: I am NOT in support of burning the flag nor am I suggesting this is something I would EVER do. No. What I am saying is that if YOU want do burn the flag, the flag itself is a symbol of your right to do just that without being punished by the government. Try that it Russia and you will wind up in a jail cell for a very, very long time. That is the opposite of Democracy. This is a concept that even people in Congress (looking at YOU, Marjorie Taylor Green) apparently do not grasp.

Same thing with flying the flag upside down, as so many Trumpsters are wont to do these days. Make no mistake: this is also a desecration of the flag done in protest of a government with whom they disagree. I don't particularly like that, either, but I will defend your right to do it to the death, unless you happen to be a SCOTUS justice, looking at YOU Samuel Alito, in which case you have just tarnished the High Court and your position in it and should be removed.

There you have it. A brief lesson in freedom.